you know, like I can't think of anything else. Like, and trying to understand that
other people aren't like that, um, is not always the easiest thing in the world. But
I'm also very empowering on, and allowing other people to do it and getting out of the
way. That's a, that's a really significant component of the way I lead is I employ you
to do a job, go and do it. Like, you don't need to check in with me every day. I am completely
empowering you to go and do it. Um, knowing full well that this is where we're going and
you're on the train and I've told you exactly what's happening here and here's your job
and you go and do it. And if you don't do it, well then, you know, you don't do it and
that's, you know, but I'm not going to micromanage you the whole time. And that's a really important
sort of, um, component in terms of the way I do it. So, um, it's, uh, you know, I think
it, it works really well for some people and not so well.
How about in the context of, of now in a, in a not-for-profit in the rich space, are
you finding you've had to have some, uh, some nuance around that or is it the same principles
apply for you?
The same principles apply. I've had a lot of discussions about, you know, not-for-profits
don't operate like this and stuff like that. And I said, well, this one does. Um, and,
and, you know, I've, I've, there's certain not-for-profits that have different commercial
models, you know, some just raise a lot of money and give it all away. Um, and, and,
and so there's different commercial models. Ours is a bit different because schools pay
us to do work, corporates hire us to run team building work, leadership work, connection
work with their, their, their employees. Um, so we, we run a service business in many ways.
Um, and so it's all based around capacity of our facilitators and, and sales funnels
and normal service business stuff. Um, and so that's been a really big focus. And then
also building out, building out, um, the brand.
But again, um, you know, like I've been there seven or eight months now where the, the, um,
all the metrics in, in the business have totally changed and we're, we're really propelling
forward. And it's now in the position where it's like, okay, like everything we've done
over the last five months, it's now up to you to go and go and run the thing, you know,
and I'll get out of your way. And, and, um, you know, it's, it's a bit scary sometimes
as a leader doing that.
So you see yourself again as making yourself redundant again in this role?
It has to be the job because otherwise you don't move forward. So when I talk about
making myself redundant, it doesn't mean I leave. It means, uh, you know, on a, on a
consistent cycle, if I'm required to deliver the operations of the business, then I'm not
waking up in the morning thinking about the future. And that's where I should be. Um,
that's what I'm good at. It's also where, it's what I believe a good CEO does is they
wake up in the morning with a clean inbox, a team that is operational.
Yeah.
Relationally delivering, getting some right, getting some wrong, you know, all that sort
of stuff. Focusing on how do we grow this exponentially, you know, instead of just a
little 5% growth every year or 10% growth, how are we looking at 100, 200% growth and
what does the next five years look like? That's where my mind is.
And that's a, a clear message and a clear lesson. I like it. I'm sure that, you know,
will resonate with a lot of people. I want to ask you one question. You've been in the
world of marketing and advertising and, and, and serious expertise. For those listening
who are, everyone that's got a business that's got a business that's got a business that's
got a business that's got a business that's got a business that's got a business that's got
a business they want to grow, what's the secret to, to marketing your business?
Oh.
There's a simple answer for you.
Yeah. Right. It is hugely dependent on the size of the business and all those sort of
things. But if we're talking about small business primarily, then.
There's some fundamental things that you, you would, in your mind, from what you've
seen if you don't get certain things right or is it really bespoke depending on the story.
A stated belief and why you exist.
Yeah.
So, um, you know, you always talk, you hear people talking about what, why and how and
all that sort of stuff, but the why you're in business is the thing that matters.
The product you have, unless you are one of the very, very few where your product is genuinely
unique and genuinely game changing and you can just sell off the back of your product.
I mean, you're Steve Jobs, right?
Like there's really not many of them.
Yeah.
Um, how you deliver it is around customer service and, you know, your distribution channels
and some of those sorts of things.
And there is some uniqueness around that.
So if you've got a unique distribution channel, I'm a big believer that that makes an enormous
difference in being able to have business success and because you can get your product
into market, you know, you know, somewhat unique, efficient sort of streamlined way.
Um.
What's an example of that then?
Um, I'm a partner in a beer called Leishman Largo.
Um, with Mark Leishman, the golfer, right?
And there's, and we have a unique distribution model because we sell into golf clubs.
Yeah.
So we're an Australian golf beer.
Targeted at golf clubs.
Targeted at golf clubs, made by Art Golfer.
It's all about golf and we sell to golf clubs.
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And no one else has that.
Yeah.
Does anyone else have a mid-strength beer?
Yeah.
Heaps of people.
Is ours wildly different than the next guy?
Well, you know, the guy who created our recipe will say, yeah, definitely.
But it's, you know, you'll like a particular beer.
I like particular beers.
You know, it's the ability to distribute it, um, uniquely into golf clubs.
Um, but the thing that really matters is the passion around why do you exist?
Why is, what's the thing emotionally that people are going to connect to?
Um, and then if you're marketing that with a $50 million marketing budget, or you're
marketing that with just you behind the coffee machine, you know, um, making
coffee.
The feeling should be the same.
And that's what people connect to, is they connect to businesses through an emotive feeling.
Uh, that should be the focus.
And people are smart enough to pick up authenticity and not, there's degrees of, isn't there?
People get it.
Oh, they feel it.
Yeah.
You know, it's, they don't, um, if you're trying to make them understand a product,
like, you know, it's like the coffee guy will tell you why this coffee bean is the greatest
coffee bean ever.
And, you know, blah, blah, blah.
I drink heaps of coffee.
I couldn't care less, you know?
And I understand some people do, but that's a, that's a small fraction of the market.
So if he's in there telling you all about the coffee bean, you'll walk in, you go, thanks
mate.
I just, I just got to get on with my day.
If he talks, tells you a funny story, he's, he's emotively engaging you, you go in, you
get your coffee and you feel good because of the belief of the brand, the experience,
everything else.
You leave moving on into your day and he's made your day better.
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It's normally the job of the cafe in the morning, right?
That gives you your coffee.
Um, and that is ultimately the focus should be.
I like it.
Uh, Fergus been asking, um, dimensions of leadership is, is something we're passionate about in,
in the leadership business.
We create a cool leader and we're seeing what I would describe as sort of 21st century leadership,
but there is a new face of leadership and you, you would have experienced it in footy.
That was a different time.
And we're seeing footy coaches, I think, you know, with a very different set of, of,
um, the way they go about leading and same in business and same in not for profit.
And I love sitting down with different people because, you know, their thoughts on it.
And we think it starts for everyone who's got a sense of, of leadership with, with self
leadership, their own sense of self leadership.
What does that mean to you?
Um, leadership for me is the ability to, you've got to have a vision of where you want to
go.
So you've got to have, um, you've got to be highly motivated on achieving that vision,
getting people to come with you.
Um, but the people that come with you are the ones that are ultimately going to do it.
So the, the, being able to lead them and motivate them to do that is the most, is really the
most important thing.
Um, I, I, I'm a big believer that it comes from vulnerability.
You know, it comes from a motive vulnerability.
Now there's certain behaviors that you can't do as a leader.
Um, and there's certain behaviors.
There's certain behaviors that you must do.
So there, there needs to be some restriction on your behavior as a leader and you need
to be well aware of that.
Um, but at the same time, you need to be phenomenally authentic.
I mean, there's no margin for error on authenticity and vulnerability.
And if you're having a rough day, be honest about it.
You know, no one expects you to be this perfect leader.
And, you know, when you talk about modern leadership, that's the thing I think about
is it's not.
Um, you know, the old footy coach, like rah, rah, rah, this is what's going to happen.
And, you know, they never made a mistake in their life and all that sort of stuff.
It's people connect with the realness of it.
It doesn't mean they don't look up to you when you admit that you stuffed it up.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I, um, you know, it's a profound answer and it, and it, and it makes sense is that you
can't without that authentic understanding of yourself, very hard to lead others.
And I think people, as I said before, uh, pretty astute at picking when someone's putting
on a mask and not being.
It pours out of them.
What are you, what are you seeing in, in the leadership side of things in that?
Just that big shift to, to, to exactly that is that the hierarchy is gone.
You know, that, um, you know, you probably, even in the military sense, you know, you
speak to military leaders now and you think that would be the ultimate hierarchy.
They worked out that you have to be collaborative.
You have to listen to people, even in, you know, life and death situation of that.
It doesn't work anymore.
People don't feel as though they've got ownership in there.
They don't feel like they've got a voice or they're listened to the next generation
just disengage immediately.
And so if you haven't, as a leader, got an understanding and understanding of people
in your environment about the whole person, not just, Hey, I've built this group called
Bastia and there's 300 people there.
And there were, I got to actually genuinely have this sense that people know that I care
about them and their improvement.
And I, you know, it sounds like you're ahead of the game in that, but, but it's still
uncommon, you know, there's still organizations, as you would know, well, and truly haven't
got that.
And I think there's a massive gap to improve with it, with that space.
Well, people don't get taught it, do they?
Like, it's like, you know, it's, I always, it's always fascinates me that you got the,
you know, the best sales person in the team and then they make them the manager of the
salespeople.
You go, hang on, where'd they learn the management skills?
Did that ever happen?
Did they get taught that?
Did they get taught how to, you know, transition and progress?
Do they understand?
You know, we see this cycle of two, two and a half years where people flip out of their
jobs and go to their jobs.
I'm a big believer that it's not because they can't do their current job.
It's because they're not emotionally ready to go to the next one.
Right?
But no one tells them that.
No one really sort of educates them on that.
And how do you get them emotionally ready?
So the person sitting in the seat hasn't done this work themselves because they never did
it at school.
They're sitting there saying, I've been doing this job for two years.
Like I can do this stand on my head.
Like I'm a bit bored and I keep asking for a promotion and they won't give me one.
And there's this disconnect, you know, and so you go, well, it's not because you can't
do your current job.
It's because you've got to develop all these leadership skills and management skills and
emotive development and emotional intelligence because your next job is not about just doing
the work.
It's about managing the three people underneath you, you know, and we don't teach anyone that.
It's madness.
And often what happens, you've seen organizations, if you're there for an extended period of
time, you fall into a leadership role just by being in the chair long enough.
And often then, as you described, without any skillset and neither should you.
I mean, if you haven't been taught it.
Well.
Then, but suddenly you're managing a hundred people and often then through your own insecurity,
you know, you manage up okay to keep your role, but down you can cause a lot of pain,
a lot of misery to a lot of people.
Absolutely.
And you get, you know, you get leaders that have got friction and ego and all this sort
of stuff.
Most of the time, I mean, almost a hundred percent of the time, it's not because they're
bad people.
Like people are, I don't know.
It seems a bit ridiculous.
I think all the time, but I can't really think of a time it's not true.
They're trying to do the right thing.
They just don't know how to do it.
And I agree with you.
And I think often those people get misconstrued as really bad people because their behavior
has become really bad.
And this podcast is born out of an extension of, of that effectively.
The work, you know, we do as part of the solution we serve.
If you put leaders from diverse backgrounds together to share and connect and learn and
ultimately hold each other accountable, it's not a bad place to start because you've got
to then reflect around.
And then also take that back.
Take some survey and feedback around how you are, what impact you're having in your
environment.
If you don't actually go and do that and listen to it and then try and better yourself with
other role modeling, how can you get better?
Well, I think that's exactly right.
And we talk about the depth of the question, right?
So if you're a leader, most of the time, there's a, there's a couple of superficial questions
and then, okay, this is what I need from you.
Same with our friends.
We do it with our friends, right?
We have this, how you doing?
I'm good.
What did you do on the weekend?
Oh, I did this.
Oh, that's interesting.
I did this.
I did that.
And it's like this tennis match of superficiality, right?
Whereas if you actually are asking, I'm listening to your answer and then I'm asking you a question
based on what you've told me, we go a bit deeper.
And then I ask you another question and we go a bit deeper.
And I ask you another question.
You ask five questions in a row to someone based on what they've told you, you'll actually
get to the point of how they're feeling, what's really going on for them.
And they'll start thinking about things.
You'll start thinking about things.
And the byproduct of that is they will feel more connected to you, right?
Because you care about them because you're listening to them.
You'll understand more about them.
So you'll be able to be a better leader for them, you know, and you'll be more connected
to them.
And, you know, it's this disconnect where the focus should be on the question, not sort
of the overall bravado and all the other stuff that sort of comes out of leadership.
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permanently at the tennis match and the superficial level, and you never get that proper connection
ever.
And, you know, we know how much life is enhanced when you have that, whatever setting it is.
The next dimension I want to talk to you about is how leaders, we see again, they're
really conscious, and it's almost the answer that you had, they're conscious of how they
positively impact someone every single day. In your environments, how have you gone about
that? Well, it's very deliberate in terms of the
impact you have on people every day is every moving part. I've been lucky because I've
been a CEO since I was 22, 23, right? So I sort of don't know any other way. I didn't
know this at the start, but I've been exceptionally lucky. I was having a conversation with one
of our staff members the other day, and we were talking about this and this sort of awareness
that you have to have as a leader because every move you make, people look at it, you
know, rightly or wrongly. You know, they talk about, staff talk about the CEO more than
they talk about anyone else. Like, unless you're aware of that, you're not aware that
every move you make as the leader is having a significant impact on all those around you.
So yeah.
So for me, I've been very aware of it. I had to learn it quickly because I, you know, I
didn't understand it early. So I had to learn it quickly. And then I make sure that it's
always about them. If it's ever about me, if I'm ever frustrated and, you know, speaking
from a frustrated perspective, I'm the only one frustrated here. That's on me, you know?
If I am stern and direct,
and I'm doing that on purpose, then no problem at all. That has value. If I'm stern and direct
and emotional, it doesn't hold value. So, you know, because then it becomes emotional conversation
and that then is about me, not about them. So everything I ever try and do, and I don't always
get it right, is ensure that whether I'm happy, empathetic, you know, mad, sad, direct, good,
bad, or indifferent.
It's on purpose because I'm trying to get the best out of them always.
Yeah. Fascinating. And so you've clearly got a gift for creating a vision and then
been able to execute it and the Bastion story is proof to that. And already, you know, eight
months into REACH, it's clearly having an enormous effect. You know, talk, can you give
some insight into how you've gone about creating that vision and sharing the visions that you
have?
At REACH, in Bastion Crossroads?
In general, yeah.
I will first say that from a Bastion perspective
and also in outreach, it only works because there's a good team
that can then deliver and execute it, right?
Like that is an absolute, like that has to be very clear in lights
that anything I do only works because there's a good team.
Did Bastion, did you have that, you know, worldwide, you know,
leading agency in the country?
Did that evolve or did that?
Oh, it certainly wasn't like some set strategy or any of that sort of stuff.
It was just sort of get through the day.
But whenever I'm asked, like, did you think you'd ever get this big,
I was always like, well, yeah, I kind of did.
But it's not like I set out to have a set plan with a set size
and all that sort of stuff.
It was just, well, of course it was going to be a success.
You know, like that has always been, like I play golf not often anymore
because I've got three kids under.
But whenever I play golf, I'm not a very good golfer.
I play off 18.
And my mates always laugh at me because they stand over the ball like,
you know, oh, my God, I'm going to shank it.
I stand over the ball thinking I'm going to hit this bombing draw.
It's going to land in the middle of the fairway.
It's going to be, you know, it's like it's Tiger Woods-esque.
And then I'll shank it off into the trees and I'm surprised every time.
And, you know, so I think that's been a strength of mine.
I heard a podcast years ago because we had a business in London fail
and I was flying back from London.
And it was a pretty traumatic sort of time.
And I was flying back from London and I was sort of almost past it.
And only, like, we shut it down like a day before, you know,
or two days before.
And I thought, there's something wrong with me.
Like, I can just, like, end these things and just move on.
And I heard Richard Branson just serendipitously had a podcast I was
listening to with Richard Branson.
And he said, you know, they had virgin brides and virgin collar and virgin
this and virgin that.
He says, he goes, the minute the decision is made that we're going to shut
this down, he said, I don't care if I put a billion dollars in it or two
dollars in it, he said, I'll forget about it the next day.
He said, like, that's it.
And it was a great learning for me because it was like we keep trying
things, you know, and failure, failing, there's nothing wrong with failing.
It just hasn't worked, you know.
As long as you've given it all, you've had a crack.
You know, it just didn't work.
So don't beat yourself up about it.
Just flick a switch, move on and go do the next thing, you know.
And that's always been ingrained in sort of my DNA in doing that.
I think a lot of that came from footy.
Getting that brutal start.
And you hear that a lot, you know, from all the people that have genuine
success is, you know, the Americans talk about failing quickly, don't they?
And they had a good culture with that in America.
We're not so good here in Australia.
Blue in America.
Is that they see that as part of doing business.
We see it as, you know, ultimate shame in some ways and something we need
to get better at in this part of the world.
Mate, I've never had a bad meeting in America, ever.
I walk into every meeting and when we first start, you know,
I was thinking about starting American, I was doing the trips and I'd have
10 meetings a day and all this stuff.
I used to leave chest out.
I'm a genius.
I've just been told how good I am for the last three weeks
and then nothing happens, you know.
And it's very American.
It's a very American culture, but they will pump you up.
They'll wrap up your success.
They will get around you.
You know, it's a very empowering culture to be part of.
Yeah.
It's, you know, I quote the Greg Norman philosophy of the time.
He's in the news big time, isn't he?
The shark was what he's doing with Lou Gold.
But he talked about if you buy a nice car in America,
someone walks past and says, hey, man, nice car.
In Australia, someone runs the keys down the side of the car,
which sums that conversation up for me.
We see.
Again, talking about what the trends in leadership for us around,
curiosity is a big thing.
Leaders are genuinely curious and they use that curiosity approach
how they get better.
How does that apply to you?
Well, I think that's absolutely right.
And I think it goes down to the, you know,
the question asking technique and a lot of the ability
to sort of facilitate that you can't do that without being curious.
You also can't.
Growing a business, doing exactly the same thing,
just more of it, I think is inevitably a difficult thing to do.
Now, there's some businesses that can scar really quickly on that.
But most of the time, if you've got one product,
you sell three times as much of it next year as you did this year,
cash flow issues.
There's all sorts of other stuff that come up.
So you've got to find ways to diversify that product set.
You've got to find ways to, whatever it might be.
If you're a drink that sells a beer to a pub, what else can you sell?
You know, and how creative can you get in diversifying that product set?
And how curious are you about what is really of need for them?
And whatever that might be.
In our game in marketing, it was, you know,
it was the ability to market and sell.
We used to talk about selling more stuff.
Like all the client wants to do is sell more of their own stuff.
That is it, you know.
So we've got to find ways to create greater value for them
to be able to sell more of their own product.
At Reach, we're a support.
We're the curriculum, you know.
We're a support to teachers.
And teachers are the most,
they're the definition of underpaid and overworked, you know.
Like these teachers deal with so much stuff on a day-to-day basis
that's just not teaching the kids.
And so we're here to support them.
So we're here to make a streamlined service that can integrate.
And we need to be curious around what's really in it for them,
not how.
Not just what we do, you know.
And that's where curiosity and leadership comes, I think.
We see communicating with clarity, again, is a really common thing.
Leaders really understand.
And you've got a brilliant way of communicating your message.
Did you give that some thought?
Was there some strategy in that?
How did you go about that?
I learned it because I did it badly.
And I would be, I would say things like, yeah, we can do that.
Sure.
And then that,
came across as like a directive, you know,
because I hadn't thought about my words, you know.
And effectively what was happening was someone was pitching an idea
and I said, yeah, great, let's do it.
And like, didn't even think about it, you know.
All I thought was, yeah, seems like a cool idea, you know, whatever.
Maybe, yeah.
Maybe, yeah.
But my language was poor.
And I've, because I move on very quickly in my head,
I can be bad at that.
I was actually having a,
a, a blue with my missus the other day and not a blue, a discussion.
And, and she said, she was like, what do you mean?
Like you, you've got this opinion on this.
Like we have spoken about this for months.
And I said, yeah, but we had a conversation last night.
And I, like in my head, that was it.
It changed.
It was done.
And then, so this whole thing that happened the next day,
it was just, it was confusion on her end.
Cause I was living in an old,
alternate universe cause I'd moved on, you know,
and just communicating terribly.
And then when it came to, she was like, oh, well, God,
that could have all been avoided.
Couldn't it?
If you'd have just communicated properly.
So I would say I'm guilty of being bad at that.
Cause I flick the switch in my own head.
I don't tell anyone else.
And when it comes on the home front, you get that feedback very quickly.
And we've all, we've all been there before on that space, isn't it?
But understanding,
and again, you know, you, you got the strong sense of self and self-awareness to,
to be able to understand that, uh, collaboration we see as the final dimension.
I want to talk to you about, um, Bastion Collective is all about collaboration and,
and, you know, you can tell from your youngest possible age,
but we see leaders now genuinely value collaboration more than ever.
Does that resonate with you?
Yeah, absolutely.
Well, that's been, that's been our whole world is, is collaboration and integrated solutions.
You know?
And because if you're an expert at one particular thing, like if you're an actual subject matter
expert on something, chances are you are not a subject matter expert on probably, probably
anything else.
So the ability, especially in marketing, I used to make two TV ads and you'd stick them
on channel nine, 10 and seven, and you'd get 80% of the population, you know, or you'd
put an ad in the Herald Sun of the Asian, you know, the, the national papers and that'd
be it.
Now you've got to make 80 ads all different.
Sizes, shapes, different con, you know, it's like, it's totally different.
Um, and you'll do PA, you'll do social, you can do all these other things.
And so the only way to do that properly is to have very clear subject matter experts
all collaborating and all working together to provide one solution.
Um, and that, I think you see that now with, you know, with, um, with different brands,
like I've got a part of, um, Rick's Eyewear, which is a sunglass company and we collaborate
with different brands all the time because.
You can put sunglasses on your head, but it's a bit dependent on what you've got on your
body, you know, and what kind of shoes you're wearing and that sort of stuff.
So you've got to have these brand collaborations and those sort of things.
So it's a really important part of business and ultimately part of leadership as well.
Who has been, uh, the greatest leader in your life?
Uh, I would say my dad.
Um, he is, he, yeah, he's an exceptional leader.
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Well, we have like he, um, you know, the, the St. Kilda thing was interesting.
He was, uh, in these sort of end of his CEO stint when I got there and then he finished
as a CEO, you know, that, that was a unique, that added a whole nother dynamic to my football
career.
You know, having my dad as the CEO of the club that I got traded to for a first round pick
and then never played one game, like that adds a whole nother dimension.
Yeah.
Right.
Um, and then when I got Bastion going, you know, I was ringing him five times a day going,
what the hell do I do here?
And how does this work?
And what does that look like?
And you know, whatever else.
Um, and then we had an opportunity to acquire a PR company, which was our first acquisition
in, I sold my apartment and bought my share and he bought a share.
And then, you know, and he played the sort of chairman role, the kind of non-exec sort of gray hair sort of oversight role for, I don't know, years, seven, eight years, and still does to this day, you know, significantly lesser extent.
But he's always provided that great mentorship and advisory, you know, and he was that whole thing around empowerment.
You know, I remember many, many times where I'd say, I'm doing this, and he'd go, really?
And I'd go, yep.
He goes, you sure you want to do that?
I go, yep.
He goes, okay.
And then two months later, I go, that didn't work.
He goes, yeah, really?
But never stopped you?
Never, never.
Like, like, never.
And a couple of times when we've had some big losses, you know, and I've made some big mistakes, I've sat there and I'm sort of self-pitying my,
you know, like, how?
Him and other, you know, other advisors that we had, it's like, surely they knew, you know?
And, but if they'd have stopped me, I wouldn't have listened anyway, for starters.
And secondly, I wouldn't have learned, you know?
And so he's always been, my man's been very good at that my entire life, is just, you know, sort of make your own mistakes and, you know, support me through them.
What a gift that is.
My dad played with his father's son and it wasn't until he passed away a couple of years ago.
He didn't once ever, despite having enormous, and watch me really closely, never once ever overlaid anything to me.
And I played a lot of really crap games, mate.
He would have had to have bitten his tongue, but it was such a, when he looked back and went, for you not to, just that was all my own mistakes to make.
And, you know, I think you end up parenting the same way.
I know I certainly try to because it's, it's a gift.
Sometimes you look back and think, geez, he could have helped me avoid a bit of pain there.
But not to be.
Yeah, and I sort of respect that.
It's got to be brutally hard as a parent.
We see it with Rach when young people come out of these, because they come out of these workshops and they've had this sort of transformative experience, you know.
And then the parent comes in with this sort of question that it's like, what, really, like this stupid question.
And you can see the kid switch off, you know.
And it's just not the parent's fault.
Like these poor parents, like it is so hard.
And most of the time I see it come from this.
You know, they're in a position of just immense care and love and desire for their kid to live the best life they can live.
But, you know, it's just got to be the hardest gig in the world, you know, being a parent of a teenager and letting them make their own mistakes.
It's got to be that difficult, I reckon.
Yeah, good luck when that comes your way.
Yeah, I might have to catch up with you again on that one, mate.
It's a, it's a puzzle that you're trying to put together the whole time.
And I love talking about it because there's no perfect answer.
And everyone.
You know, works their way through it the same way in, in, we love the spirit of collaboration and, you know, you're clearly passionate about it.
And all your areas, whether it's reach or back to best, has there been one person you thought, God, if we could connect with that person, we get interesting answers on this question.
Is there anyone you've felt like I'd love to collaborate with?
Oh, um, no, no one springs to mind.
I've, I've been very fortunate.
Um.
That in Bastion, we have an immense breadth of clientele and network, you know, so we've had some amazing people be part of our organization that just for all rights, shouldn't have given us the time of day, you know, um, and, and, and they, and what they've done is connect us to a whole bunch of other people.
So within our network, you know, not that my network individually is necessarily anything amazing, but within the Bastion network, we have had great forties.
So there's, there's just so much, you know, culture and that anytime we go, geez, I'd love to speak to that person, you know, it's like two calls away, one call away, you know, um, there's no one that there's no one that sort of jumps to mind.
So I think I've been very fortunate in that.
Um, uh, I think what's, what's interesting now is a thing comes to my head is, is in reach, building the profile reach is a very, very important thing.
Um, so, so, you know, people out there, I'll probably give you a more thought people out there that, um,
can help with the growth of that profile and those sort of things,
that will make a significant difference to our organisation.
That's a good note to finish on.
I appreciate your time and to have you at the helm
of something as important as REACH and what it means
to the community here in Melbourne.
As I said, I had the great love and affection and privilege
to have known Jimmy Steins and the Steins family.
It fills you with joy to know that it couldn't be in better hands.
As you started there at 15, you've gone back full circle
to run an organisation that makes massive differences
in the lives of so many kids and then, by extension,
our community and the family.
So if you're out there and you want to invest in something,
give Fergus a call and support REACH.
It couldn't go much better than that, mate.
Congratulations.
It's been an incredible experience going through your life
and catching up with you and thanks for spending the time.
Thanks, mate.
Really good.
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